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I’ve been sick with a cold  It has been miserable.  I get to feeling better and I try to do stuff but my energy is just non-existent.  So yesterday I decided I was NOT setting my alarm and sleeping as long as I wanted.  I wasn’t going to do much of anything.  It was going to be a mental and physical health day. 

Surprisingly I slept till after 10.  After helping put away groceries and running a few errands with Vicki, I camped out in my recliner.  I watched a movie (Letters to Juliet – sweet and romantic), a dvd of the 5th season of Criminal Minds (the eyeball episode was almost too much) and a bunch of shows on the DVR. 

While camped out in my recliner, I crocheted baby bibs for some of the people I know who either have a new baby or are going to have a new baby in their lives soon.  I want to finish the one I’m working on and make one more of those.  Then I’m going to swap over to a baby afghan for a friend’s son who will be a father soon.  Then I’ll be moving back to Stephanie’s afghan…

Today I’ve already made a supper for one night this week (just needs baking) and lunch for today.  Lunch is large enough that we can have left overs for lunches this week.  Once I get back the recliner, I’m going to watch a couple of movies and more on the DVR.  While I do that I’ll work on the crocheting things above…

Am I really getting down time here? 

Still waiting to hear about the job.  I’m anxiously waiting to hear.  I want the job as it offers a lot of advantages  The new job will be more diverse than the one I currently have.  It will offer a variety of tasks to keep me busy.  It will be a different atmosphere than I’m used to.  Additionally I’ll save money on gas as I will be commuting nearly half the time I am now.  I think health wise it will be better too.  The distance I need walk to get into the building is mush shorter than my current job.  This should reduce the amount of pain I’m in and make life more bearable.  I’ll also be able to better utilize my pool membership – ending my day with a walk in the pool and a soak in the hot tub will be great. 

Now I just have to wait until they complete their background check and let me know.  Hopefully I will get the job and know soon.  I’m constantly thinking about it.  The more I think about it the more I want it and the more impatient I get to know the result.  It is very much a circular issue. 

So I’ve been trying to keep busy.  Really it isn’t working very well so I just have to take a deep breath and pull in the tattered shreds of my minute amount of patience…

Don’t you just love fall with the smell of cool crisp air and the turning of leaves… oh and let’s not forget the lovely political ads that bombard us.  I’m sick of all the lying that I hear on the radio and tv.  For once I would like a politician to say – here are my beliefs – and just list them – whatever they are.  Then I would like to hear how that politician will deal with conflicting desires of constituants – because their job is to represent the PEOPLE…

I’ve taken to muting the tv when an ad comes on and turning the radio off because you can’t believe a single thing that is said – oh except of course the names are correct and that they are in fact running for office.  If producers of things created such deceptive ads they would be sued till the cows come home… our politicians just keep slinging the mud and lies.  It is disheartening.

I vote.  I vote and contact reps and I try to be aware but how do we wade through the neck deep bullshit that is getting shoveled?  My union calls – we support… and list off the names… the democratic party calls… can we count on your support… I just want them to tell me straight forward what their beliefs are and how they will behave in office. 

I’m naive enough to still want that.  I’m cynical enough to know I’ll never get it.  So I’ll keep muting my tv and turning off the radio… is it November yet?

Last week I had my first job interview in about five years.  It was an interesting day for me because I wasn’t nervous at all until I got in the car to drive from my house to the interview.  I’d worked all day with barely a thought about it. Then on the way to the interview I was suddenly slammed with doubt and insecurity concerning the entire process. 

I called my daughter and she was a little help but I was pretty nervous when I walked into the building.  I had a long interview – about an hour – but to be honest I couldn’t tell you how good I did.  I walked away thinking okay that wasn’t horrible.  However, since then I’ve done nothing but think about how I could have said something better or did I come off this way or that way.  I know I’m over thinking the entire thing yet I can’t seem to let it go. 

I should hear about the job this week.  My guess is that I didn’t get it but that could be stemming from my over thinking the whole process.  I’m normally a very confident person so for me to be so unsure is annoying and frustrating.  Perhaps part of this is because I don’t have any control on the outcome so I just have to wait and see.  My part in the process is done and I can’t go back to change anything.  I just have to take a deep breath and hope that I get the job.

I’ve got my fingers crossed…..

It never hurts to have people review your work, even if it is not a final draft.  There are two things you have to remember.  One is that everyone has their opinion and you have to listen to their opinion but don’t necessarily have to agree or act upon it.  Two is that criticism is a part of the writing life so don’t get upset when people are uncomplimentary about your work.

I have some wonderful people who read my work.  Some I share with pretty regularly and they give me varying degrees of critique.  Other times I look to people I consider experts in their fields and consult them.  My focus lately has been children’s material – poetry, books, short stories.  So I asked my sister, Aimee, who is a reading specialist for 30 years to read over a few of my offerings. 

She was very gentle and kind but at the same time gave me an amazing critique on several items I’m working on.  I woke up this morning with a complete rewrite for one of them.  I’ll be working on that later.

One of the stories I sent to her got turned down which made me very sad because I thought it was a great story.  She had a different take on it though.  I listened to her viewpoint and I’ll be reworking it.  I might even send the reworked piece back to the publisher to see if they like it better. 

Her view point made me get around my emotional attachment to the piece and look at it objectively.  This is important for good marketing of work.  I need to have a clear and unemotional look at each of my pieces.  I know some of the stuff I have written is crap.  I also know some of it is outstanding.  I just have to keep the emotions out of the work so I can make good decisions on which is which…

To all my reviewers… thank you for all your input and assistance.  It helps me see my work from other viewpoints and perspectives.  This makes me a better writer…

With the help of a friend, I cleaned out our storage room in our basement.  This is part of an ongoing project where I’m trying to get the basement organized enough so Vicki (the middle daughter) can move down there.  We worked for a number of hours and finally got this small room cleared out.  Now Ken will be able to build the shelves we want in there.  We will be able to move Virginia and Stephanie’s stuff into a corner of the room, the Christmas decorations will likely take up another corner.  The shelves are for canning supplies and other things we want to keep but don’t necessarily want out in the house. 

In this emptying of the store room, I discarded a lot of stuff, put some in a pile of to donate, and gave some to the friend who was helping.  There were some under utilized metal shelves in there which we moved to a different storage area. 

This makes the third foray into the basement organization project.  I know I shouldn’t do anymore today (knees are killing me) but I really just want to go down there and shift more things where I want them.  I figure it will take two or three more times to get the rooms down there organized to my liking. 

Then comes the projects that provoked this clearing and organizing frenzy… moving the kid, putting the exercise equipment in her old room, build a sewing table, organize craft space, build a table for the office… and that doesn’t cover the other projects still lingering like staining the pantry doors, replacing the dining room light… Oh and let’s not forget the happy news that we found a crack in our foundation – one which was allegedly repaired before we bought the place.  Unfortunately when I called the company they said they had no record of the repair being done… This is just LOVELY news… NOT…

It is never ending.  I need a team of workers to do what I tell them to do without arguing and three days.  I could probably get it all done in that time… Unfortunately that isn’t going to happen.  Where are the house brownies who come in and do this work?  Anybody got a tip on how to tempt them to my house? 

So for right now I’m trying to look at this one room being empty and organized.  The rest … well I’m trying not to think about all that…

After 11 days off, I returned to work today.  Within 20 minutes of being at work, I was missing my peaceful house and home office.  Within 45 minutes of being at work, I was wishing I was home.  I had somehow forgotten how noisy and chaotic my office is.  I live in cube city so I hear EVERYTHING that goes on in neighboring cubes.  My next cube neighbor comes in and turns on her radio.  Then leaves her cube so I get to listen to it while she is off visiting.  I don’t care that she visits but don’t turn your radio on until you are in your cube.  Down the aisle, one of my co-workers had a fit at someone (don’t know who) because her computer wasn’t working right.  She isn’t quiet about it and that disturbs the entire section.  Then the gossip from down the hall comes to our area for his morning chat with my next cube neighbor.  As he walks by my cube he complains about whatever his complaint is for the day. 

Meanwhile I’m trying to remember my passwords, wade through 60 plus emails and set up my desk so I remember what the heck I’m supposed to be doing.  This is the normal daily chaos for our section.  I’m used to it usually.  Yet today having been away from the chaos for so long it was just too much.  I was on input overload. 

I know it would be rude to shush people but really that is what I wanted to do.  I realized today that I really do work in a noisy and chaotic atmosphere.  The environment puts my senses on overload and this is why I sometimes have problems focusing and need to walk away from my desk.  I usually escape into the bathroom which is quiet and peaceful.

Ideally I’d like to work on writing full time.  Reality is that I need my paycheck and my benefits.  I’ll just have to escape into my MP3 player and classical music or audio books.  This distraction in my ears allows me to escape the chaos into a variety of worlds – music or literature.  I become my own little island.  I block out the chaos and negative energy surrounding me and focus (or try to) on what needs to get done.  This makes me productive and keeps me calm. 

Then when the chaos enters my cube (haven’t barricaded the entrance yet) I am better able to handle it.  I can handle the added stress and work that gets plopped into my lap.  I can spread a bit of my calm to those who come in and give them a tiny bit of peace knowing that I’ll handle whatever the crisis is with grace (at least I hope so).

Tomorrow I’ll be a bit better at handling the craziness and be that island for myself.  I might even be able to share some of the peace on my quiet calm island. 

I’ve just returned from an hour in the pool exercising.  It is the only place I can workout without causing more damage to my knees and other joints.  The nice thing is I LOVE going.  Pain is a part of my daily life but I still  make the effort to go to the pool and work out.  

Our society pushes people to be thin and perfect. I think that is boring and unhealthy. If we were all meant to be the same then we already would be. We are meant to be different sizes and shapes. So I’m not pushing for people to lose weight or fit a particular mold.

For all those out there who live in pain, I just want to encourage you to make an effort.  Even if all you can do is walk up and down a hall for five minutes or some other minimal effort, make the effort.  Get up and move.  You are worth it.  You are worth trying to get healthy and be better for YOU. 

The workout will help you feel better about yourself – someone else can tell you the chemical reasons why (endorphins I think).  The effort you put into it – even if it is only for 5 minutes while you dance (sitting or standing) – will reward you ten times over.  The pain will go away temporarily, the handicap will be lessened and the exercise will give you a high better than any drug.  The effort will be worth it.

I got up early today because tomorrow I have to be up even earlier.  I’ve needed and enjoyed this time off.  I loved seeing Stephanie, going to the pool on my schedule, writing, being a bum, cleaning (odd but true), and just having down time.  There defnitely wasn’t a grand scheme of vacation plans other than to get some of my endless to do list done. 

Today I’m going to the pool, hanging out with people I enjoy being with, and doing as little as possible.  I’ll have to actually go to bed before 1 am for a change so I can be up at 4:30. 

I’m a tad bit sad that the vacation is coming to a close but reality is no one has won the lottery or inhereted millions so I have to go back to work.  This has been a reprieve from my normal schedule and I’ve gotten some of the de-stress time I definitely needed.  I know when I go back to work tomorrow I will have a lot of stuff to get through. 

However, I have today yet and I’m not going to let tomorrow stress me out.